Category Archives: real life

30 Weeks of Kink: Music (Week 9)

Posted on October 26, 2011 by

Week 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy. So, technically this song is about a stalker, not kink.  But it’s a beautiful song and I’ve always been fond of the refrain. Possession by Sarah McLachlan:

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Winners & Losers

Posted on October 17, 2011 by

“How many?” I like to ask before he starts, like to know what I’m in for so that I can mentally prepare.  For the same reasons, he doesn’t like to tell me. “Until you cry.” His answer throws me off … Continue reading →

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30 Weeks of Kink: The Toy Chest (Week 7)

Posted on August 6, 2011 by

Week 7: What’s your favorite toy? I posted this question to twitter this week and heard a few good responses: hand (does this count?), belt, cane.  Personally, I find it a little harder to pin down.  I don’t have an … Continue reading →

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30 Weeks of Kink: First Time, revisted (Week 5)

Posted on June 18, 2011 by

Week 5: What was your first kinky experience?  The story of my first spanking has already been told on this blog, under the heading First Time’s a Charm. It was first posted in 2008, and I’ve reposted it here: We … Continue reading →

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Learning my lesson

Posted on June 14, 2011 by

Author’s Note:  I wrote this post last night (this morning?) and published it at about 4 am.  This morning, I am less sure it was something to be shared.  When I write I generally give a piece time to settle … Continue reading →

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30 Weeks of Kink: She’s a Very Kinky Girl (Week 4)

Posted on June 11, 2011 by

Week 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? My childhood was incredibly happy.  I really am quite lucky and appreciative for all of the opportunities I had, and those opportunities were due, in no small part, … Continue reading →

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A play in one act

Posted on February 1, 2011 by

What happens to naughty girls? We’re laying tangled on his bed, but he pulls his head back to look at me in that way that leaves me feeling like he can see straight through me. Nothing. I respond – half … Continue reading →

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A glimpse

Posted on January 20, 2011 by

You lead me to the couch, my hand tucked in yours, my feet trailing behind as if I could somehow stop the inevitable.  No matter how I drag my feet, though, we get there soon enough.  Before I am ready … Continue reading →

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To me, at sixteen

Posted on December 1, 2010 by

Quite a few bloggers have written lovely posts to their younger selves ( Kate, Emma Jane, Abel). Each one has been inspiring, and made me wonder what I would say to myself at sixteen.  I am double that in age, a woman … Continue reading →

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One Rule (updated)

Posted on November 13, 2010 by

Life has been hectic lately.  My work, which is always a source of stress to begin with, is in the midst of some major changes, bringing that level to near unbearable some days.  I’m feeling run down and exhausted, a … Continue reading →

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